For the CMNF/CFNM sex trend you don’t need anything, except you and a man: Sounds quite ordinary? But it’s not!
CMNF stands for “Clothed Male, Naked Female”. CFNM is the reverse version: “Clothed Female, Naked Male”. At first, the sex trend causes confusion not only because of its cryptic abbreviation: A clothed and an unclothed partner during sex actually sounds neither particularly exciting nor practical. We reveal what this sex trend is all about and why it can be very exciting.
CFNM and CMNF: The game with dominance
Since Fifty Shades of Grey at the latest, dominance games have become socially acceptable in the sex discourse. Women who, unlike Anastasia Steele, don’t like to play the submissive female, simply turn the tables and take dominance over their Christian Grey. (Pssst: The sex position “worship” also makes men submissive).
CFNM and CMNF are fetish play because the clothed-unclothed gradient also creates a power gradient. The one who is clothed has power over the one who is naked and thus submits. So far the theory.
In the BDSM field CFNM and CMNF are mainly used additionally as a reinforcement of the role distribution of superior and inferior part, but also outside of fetish sex the two nude-plus-clothed variants can be exciting. In role-playing games, they make especially a lot of sense. Here, for example, the clothed partner can take on an authoritarian or voyeuristic role, while the one without clothes is exposed in more than one sense, taking on an embarrassed or vulnerable position.
CFNM and CMNF: only for the advanced?
It is not infrequently said about the sex trend and its two variants that it can only develop its true charm in play with several participants or in a group. This and the close connection of CFNM and CMNF to the BDSM area make the trend not interesting for every couple. However, since it can be tried out without much effort and does not in itself exceed any limits that strongly endanger well-being, CFNM and its reverse variant are definitely worth a try for those who like to experiment, especially within role-playing games.